D, 63, engineer: "I'm having the best sex of my life."
D, 63, engineer: "I'm having the best sex of my life."
Legendary Leaders. Legendary Lovers.
Bridging the gap between professional mastery
and intimate aliveness for high-performing men.
You've mastered your career. But intimately? You feel disconnected. Performance anxiety. Going through the motions. A sense that you've sacrificed aliveness for success.
This isn't about fixing broken. It's about integration—harnessing your erotic vitality as your ultimate creative force.
“I'm having the best sex of my life.“
— D, 63, Engineer
Satisfaction: 10/10 | Likelihood to Recommend: 10/10
THE DISCONNECT
You've Mastered the Boardroom. Why Does the Bedroom Feel So Disconnected?
High-performing men tell me:
"I'm confident everywhere else. But intimately? I feel like I'm performing."
"I've achieved everything. But my intimate life feels flat."
"Success was supposed to make me feel alive. Instead, I feel disconnected."
The truth: You can't separate professional presence from intimate presence.
If you've spent decades organizing your nervous system around achievement and control—that shows up in bed. In your relationships. In whether you can feel pleasure or just perform it.
It shows up in intimacy. In how you touch your partner. In whether you can actually feel pleasure or just perform it.
The result?
Performance anxiety. Going through the motions. A sense that you've sacrificed aliveness for success.
But it doesn't have to stay that way.
THE TRANSFORMATION
From performance to presence. From anxiety to aliveness.
Performance Anxiety →
Embodied Confidence
Move from "trying to get it right" to actually feeling pleasure and power. Access sexual confidence that doesn't depend on technique—it depends on presence.
Disconnection → Aliveness
Reclaim the vitality you thought was gone forever. Learn to circulate your life force, activate your nervous system for pleasure, and feel genuinely alive in your body again.
Going Through Motions →
Legendary Presence
Experience the best sex of your life—at any age. Move from performing for your partner to being fully present with them. The transformation ripples into everything: confidence, leadership, relationships, impact.
THIS WORK IS FOR YOU IF…
✔️ You're a leader, executive, entrepreneur, or high-performer
✔️ You've mastered your career but feel the cost in your intimate life
✔️ You're ready to integrate your power with your aliveness
✔️ You experience performance anxiety, disconnection, or flatness in intimacy
✔️ You want presence, not just techniques
✔️ You know something's missing but haven't found the answer yet
CLIENT TRANSFORMATION
From Performance Anxiety to the Best Sex of His Life: How a 63-Year-Old Engineer Reclaimed His Legendary Presence
THE CLIENT:
D, 63, Engineer | Heli-skier | High-performer in every area of life except one
THE CHALLENGE:
D came to me struggling with erectile function, premature ejaculation, and performance anxiety with his partner. Despite his success in every other area of life, his intimate life felt broken.
He thought it was a mechanical problem. He didn't realize it was a nervous system problem.
His entire system was organized around achievement, control, and output. That showed up in bed as performance pressure, mental gymnastics, and inability to feel.
THE APPROACH:
Over 12 sessions, we didn't "fix" a problem. We recalibrated his entire nervous system for presence.
Through embodied practices, nervous system training, and learning to feel instead of perform, D discovered capacities he didn't know he had.
We worked on:
Activating his life force through somatic practices
Moving from performance anxiety to embodied confidence
Learning to feel pleasure instead of chasing it
Nervous system recalibration for presence, not just performance
Integration of his sexual vitality with his leadership presence
THE TRANSFORMATION:
Within 12 sessions:
✔️ Achieved all initial goals (erection, lasting longer, orgasming together)
✔️ Went from performance anxiety to 9/10 sexual confidence
✔️ "I'm having the best sex of my life—with her or anyone else"
✔️ No longer dependent on porn for arousal
✔️ Gained tools he trusts will work with any future partner
✔️ Overall pleasure level: 8/10 (and still growing)
HIS TESTIMONIAL:
"It almost seems so easy and natural to be where I am today, however, I know I came into this coaching session very unsure of myself and if or how I was ever going to get there. It's amazing that I just worked through the process, and trusted it, even though I had no idea what I was getting myself into."
SATISFACTION METRICS:
Satisfaction with coaching: 10/10
Likelihood to recommend: 10/10
Sense of embodiment & presence: 9/10
Confidence & sexual power: 9/10
Integration into daily life: 8/10
Remembering eros in daily life: 10/10
HIS ADVICE TO OTHER MEN:
"Don't be afraid to ask for what you want, to say anything, ask any question, don't be embarrassed or hold back about anything."
MY STORY
Austrian JD. Corporate Law. Diplomacy. Then... Eros.
I have a JD in law from Austria. I worked in corporate law and diplomacy—high-stakes environments where presence and strategic thinking mattered more than anything.
I understand what it means to operate at the highest levels of performance. I know the cost of organizing your nervous system around achievement instead of aliveness.
Then I discovered something that changed everything: Eros. Life force. Creative power.
It's what all the strategy, intellect, and achievement in the world can't touch.
I spent the next decade studying nervous system work, yoga, somatic practices, and embodiment. I became a certified Love, Sex & Relationship Coach (1,000-hour certification). I started working with leaders who'd mastered their external world but felt completely disconnected internally.
And here's what I learned:
The men who get the deepest transformation aren't broken. They're high-performers who've realized: legendary leadership requires erotic aliveness.
Not as a luxury. As the foundation.
I bring two worlds together in my work:
The rigor of legal training and strategic thinking.
The embodiment of somatic practice and life force activation.
European sophistication meets North American achievement culture.
The result? Clients report profound shifts in confidence, presence, and performance—not just in intimacy, but in leadership, relationships, and overall impact.
One client (63-year-old engineer) told me: "I'm having the best sex of my life." But the transformation went far beyond mechanics. His entire relationship to presence, pleasure, power, and aliveness shifted.
If you're a leader who's achieved everything externally but knows something's missing internally—let's talk.
LEGENDARY PRESENCE PROGRAM: 6-MONTH PRIVATE COACHING FOR HIGH-PERFORMING MEN
For leaders ready to integrate their power with their aliveness
FOR MEN WHO:
Have mastered their careers but feel the cost in their intimate lives
Experience performance anxiety, disconnection, or flatness in intimacy
Want to reclaim their erotic vitality and legendary presence
Are ready for real transformation, not just tips and techniques
WHAT YOU'LL EXPERIENCE:
✔️ Move from performance anxiety to unshakeable sexual confidence
✔️ Reclaim the aliveness you thought was gone forever
✔️ Learn to be present in intimacy, not performing
✔️ Break free from dependencies (porn, pills, mental gymnastics)
✔️ Experience the best sex of your life—at any age
✔️ Transform your entire relationship to presence, pleasure, and power
PROGRAM DETAILS:
Duration: 6 months
Format:
12 private sessions (75 minutes each, bi-weekly)
Personalized nervous system assessment + protocol
Detailed session notes after every call
Signal voice message support between sessions (48-hour response)
Weekly embodiment challenges tailored to your transformation
Curated resources (practices, tools, frameworks)
Investment: $14,000 USD
Payment plan available
WHAT MAKES THIS DIFFERENT:
This isn't therapy. It's not about "fixing" a problem or learning techniques.
This is nervous system recalibration. It's learning to organize your body around presence instead of performance. It's accessing your erotic vitality as your most potent creative force.
You'll work with someone who understands both worlds:
The rigor of high-stakes performance
The depth of embodied transformation
(No commitment. Just genuine exploration of whether this work is right for you.)
THE PROCESS
The Legendary Presence Process - How it works
4-STEP LAYOUT:
STEP 1: Consultation Call (20 minutes)
You share what's been happening. I listen deeply with genuine curiosity about your experience and what you want to change. We explore what's possible.
STEP 2: First Session Assessment
We start with a full nervous system assessment. I understand how your system is organized, where the blocks are, and what we're working with.
You'll begin learning tools immediately.
STEP 3: Integration Work (Sessions 2-12)
We work together bi-weekly for deep transformation. Each session builds on the last.
You practice between sessions (weekly challenges). You have me available for support via Signal.
STEP 4: Integration & Continuation
By session 12, you have tools, clarity, and embodied confidence you can use for life.
Many clients continue with ongoing support. Some move into group work. Some graduate fully equipped.
COMMON QUESTIONS
Q: How long does transformation typically take?
A: Most clients experience significant shifts within the first 3-4 sessions. By session 12, the transformation is usually profound—nervous system recalibrated, confidence rebuilt, aliveness reclaimed. However, transformation is ongoing. This program gives you the foundation and tools to continue evolving.
Q: What if I'm skeptical this will work?
A: That's completely normal. High-performers are often skeptical of anything that promises transformation. I respect that. Book a consultation call to explore whether you think this could work for you.
Q: What if things get worse?
A: They will. Imagine opening Pandora’s box. Looking at your intimate life will bring up discomfort, guaranteed. You will want to quit. And shove everything back into the box. But going back to pretending everything was fine won’t work any longer. Keep going! We are doing this together.
Q: Do you work with men in relationships, or is this just for single men?
A: Both. In fact, most of my clients are in long-term relationships and want to deepen their intimate connection. Some sessions can include your partner if that feels right.
Q: Can we do this over Zoom, or do we need to meet in person?
A: All sessions are over Zoom. I'm based in Revelstoke, BC, but I work with clients globally. Zoom is perfect for this work—you can be in any comfortable space.
Q: What if I need to reschedule sessions?
A: Life happens. We work together to find times that work. I'm flexible within reason. Your commitment to the work matters more than perfect attendance.
Q: Do you offer a guarantee?
A: I guarantee that if you show up fully to this work, you will experience measurable shifts in confidence, presence, and pleasure. If you're not experiencing transformation, we adjust our approach or explore what's getting in the way.
Q: How do I know if I'm a good fit for this work?
A: You're NOT a good fit if:
You're a low baller with no purpose, goals or mission
Your intimate life is phenomenal and supports your career and vice versa
You think everything is just fine as it is
You're closed off and unwilling to take responsibility
You don’t have $14K to invest in yourself
READY TO RECLAIM YOUR ALIVENESS?
Book a complimentary 20-minute consultation to explore if Legendary Presence is right for you.
No pressure. Just genuine exploration of what's possible for you.
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